bunking classes in school, trying too hard to seem too cool.
those lazy humid summer days, nodding off on the bus ride home, with Delhi feeling like a greenhouse dome.
shedding our school bags, racing to round up the friends, the 40Β° heat never even an afterthought, batting and bowling in our small park, till bad-light caused us to gather in the dark.
my buddy and i, singing Beatles’ songs loud enough for the two girls we had crushes on, “Can’t buy me Love” belted out till we were hoarse, surviving the glaring looks of the disapproving grannies of course.
those were the days, of cycling to the cinema, to watch “Sholay” for the umpteenth time, sitting in the 2-rupee seats right in front, rattling off the dialogue line by line.
racing back home to catch a few songs on “Chitrahaar”, sitting up close to our ancient black and white telly, the picture quality akin to snow, not that it mattered, this was after all our most coveted tv show.
getting our ears clipped at times for coming home late, the joyful sounds of laughter from our friends who were en-route home to a similar fate.
lighting clay diyas as Diwali approached, stuffing our faces with malaai burfi from “Bengal Sweet House”, downing sweet lassis as autumn upon summer encroached.
“borrowing” friends’ dad’s scooters, the wind in our hair, inhaling the pollution without any care, off to Connaught Place for an ice-cream at Nirulas, and to stock up on our filmi music cassettes from the ever smiling Sikh man at Palika Bazaar, till we emerged above ground, each of us smelling like an incense shop from afar.
stopping off in Defence Colony, to savour some gol-gappas and ganne-ka-ras, the only word never uttered those days was “bas”.
gliding down the streets of our colony, as if we were kings, with the brash swagger that being a teenager brings.
enjoying the Diwali nights, friends exchanging sweetmeats, as Delhi resounded with firecrackers and rocket streaked skies, having our fill of never-ending chais.
winter came along with its polluted fog blanketing the freezing early morn, our pleas of “only 5 minutes more” falling on deaf ears as from our warm beds we were torn.
when spring hopped along, we waited for Holi, to sing countless a filmi-song, with our pichkaaris, and water-filled balloons, aiming at all, giggling like buffoons.
if nostalgia is a seductive liar, as I somewhere once read, then allow me to be seduced, again and again, after all these years and all these miles that have been tread.
to be taken back to the Delhi of yesteryear, ignites a fierce passion, and I crave a coconut dipped syrupy meethha paan,
for after all these years inbetween here and there,
it’ll always be “meri Dilli, meri jaan”
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Glossary:
“Sholay” – A popular Bollywood film of the 1970s.
“Chitrahaar” – A musical television show.
“Diyas” – small earthen lamps lit during Diwali.
“Diwali” – the festival of light.
“Malaai Burfi” – A popular sweetmeat.
“Lassi” – A popular yoghurty drink.
“Connaught Place” – the centre of New Delhi.
“Palika Bazaar” – An underground shopping complex in Connaught Place.
“Nirulas” – A popular fast food restaurant.
“Gol-gappas” – A popular fast food
“Ganne-ka-ras” – Sugarcane juice.
“Defence Colony” – A suburb of New Delhi.
“Bas” – A Hindi word meaning ‘enough’.
“Chai” – Tea
“Holi” – the festival of colours, heralding the arrival of spring.
“Pichkaari” – A toy like device to spray water. Commonly used on Holi.
“Meetha Paan” – sweet Betel leaf filled with syrup and other fragrant spices.
“Meri Dilli, Meri Jaan” – literally meaning ‘my Delhi, my life”
“Dilli” – Delhi
Nope, Bambai meri jaan rules! Sorry about that, Afzalbhai π
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ππ ah may the friendly mumbai-dilli saga continue, Kunal-bhai! Aamchi Mumbai! π
absolutely love your comment. makes me more nostalgic than ever … best wishes and warmest regards to you and those dear to you.
always a respectful dilliwaala π
Peace and Equality for all, brother βπππ
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To be very honest, I quite envy Delhi with its infrastructure, spaces, greenery, food and pretty women π But ky karein, Bombay is in my blood.
Thanks for your good wishes, Afzal and I reciprocate the same. God bless you and your family.
IF ever you’re in Bom/Del, do get in touch – I’d love to meet with you!
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thanks man, appreciate it. truly. yes i do know the the intense attachment to the cities of our birth … as you say it’s in our blood. I too love Mumbai, have always enjoyed my time spent there. It has a ‘life’ that Delhi lacks. lekin kya karein LOL. Likewise if you’re ever in South Africa, do drop me a line. it’ll be great to meet up. stay well man, and have a pav-bhaji for me, my friend ππβπ
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I’ll have a pav bhaji, a vada pav, a kheema pav, a bhel, a pomfret fry and drink a falooda for you! Followed by some phirni!!
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my main man! most excellent mere bhai! and thank you again. appreciate our interactions. takes me back to the “good ol’ days”
Cheers and warmest wishes as always.
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You’re right, Afzal, I’ve done almost everything you wrote about and reminisce fondly about those carefree days. Somewhere along the line, we lost our innocence. And boss, I lied – I can’t eat all of that in one go anymore!!! Take care, stay safe!
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I know exactly what you mean, yaar … those days of innocence are long gone. but at least we have the memories to cherish … nope we can’t guzzle food the way we used to either LOL.
Stay cool, man … stay chilled
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Can neither guzzle food nor the other stuff π
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oh on that note, I fully agree yaar hahaha
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Namaskar ji namaskar.
Haha shanti and equality to all. Powerful wishes π
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powerful wishes indeed brother!
stay well ππ
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Well i hope that the way you are addressing me -Brother is our Dilli wala dost slang ‘bhai’ (which is perfectly Okay with me) and not the gender erroneous π Just curious since i am girl π
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oh my apologies, meri dilliwaali behna!
π thank you for your warm words.
also glad you mentioned that you are not a boy – and no pukka dilliwaala would ever address you as ‘bhai’ π
Qshama aur gustaakhi ke liye maaf.
stay well and warmest wishes, dost
Peace and Equality for all βπ
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Hahaha koi na gustaakhi maaf… No problem dear but yes I detest word ‘behen’ (for obvious reasons π ) Dost is perfect
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then dost it shall be β
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now that is probably the exact definition of a faux-pas. a thousand apologies, yet again.
β peace
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Cβmon it is totally fine. thousand apologies not required.
shanti to all π
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and so shanti it shall be π
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Shanti and Equality for all βπ
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To the T man! I was about to mention ‘chhithi aayi hai’ song next. It’s for all the birds who flew away from their native place & yet is able to well our eyes up who are still in their homelands. I can’t say that I understand what you must have felt but I can relate it to some extent.
Warmest wishes from your ‘Dilli Meri jaan’
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thank you, man! you feel it in your bones and that’s the power of great music. great getting to know you, brother – and do stay well in the city of my birth. Namaskaar
Shanti and Equality for all βππ
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It’s a beautiful nazm written by Zafer Gorakhpuri and yes sung by our padamshree Pankaj Udhas.
Yeah I read in our bio about your current stay in SA but I’m sure everybody misses home. A mere mention of Pankaj Udhas takes us down the memory lane of songs like Chandi jaisa rang Hai tera sone jaise Baalπ I just loved that song. Nevermind you can ignore that. It’s just those days were gold. Quite nice interacting with you π stay happy
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We can never forget the ‘chandi jaisa rang hai tera, sone jaise baal’ – oh man we grew up on that stuff … the Zafar Gorakhpuri nazm is exquisite. The one song I always cry when I hear it is also Pankaj-bhais ‘chhitthi aayi hai’. wonderful interacting with you, and my warmest wishes from Johannesburg.
Peace and Equality for All βππ
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Afzal I have no words to express how nostalgic this feels. I was reading your another post ‘Delhi’ but I didn’t find any section to comment there but trust me it kept me hooked till last words. It was so damn touching and so failingly true. We have lost our Delhi, it’s essence is gone. It’s like some new city barely recognizable and yet we are calling it our home. People were used to get along so well in those years and today we see riots, marches, rapes and all other crime taking shelter in our very homes. Hope we could turn around time.
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my dear friend K.C, every sentiment and word you have said is so, so true. there was a time when doors were left unlocked, and neighbours were akin to family. I haven’t been to Delhi in many years as I am now living in South Africa, but I keep abreast of the news from our beloved Dilli. It certainly has been a tale of woe and heartbreak to see our city slide into what it has become today. Thank you for your thoughts and for your warm words and I am deeply touched that this piece moved you. the lyrics of one ghazal comes to mind that to me, sums so much of it – I don’t know the name of the poet but it is sung by Pankaj Udhas and … ” Dukh-Sukh tha ek sabka, apna ho ya begaana, Kya voh bhi tha zamaana, Kya yeh bhi hai zamaana ”
Warmest wishes my friend and may the hopes for peace and respect and equality never dim.
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Beautiful! As I read it, I lived it!
Enough saidβ¨
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many humble thanks, dear friend. much appreciated and moved that this piece resonated with you.
Warmest wishes and Peace and Equality for All βππ
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